You’ve really got to learn to put your foot down when you’re in a relationship. Just because you are supposedly falling in love with a guy doesn’t mean that you have to be tolerating his terrible behavior. In a relationship, there should always be room for growth and criticism. You should always be able to tell your man that you’re unhappy with how he’s treating you. You shouldn’t have to be sucking things up and faking a smile just because you’re too afraid to contradict or offend him. Sure, there are some things that you need to tolerate; like certain harmless quirks. You always need to accept him for who he is if you’re going to love him.
However, you also need to be able to draw that line. There are some things that your man does which are downright intolerable; that are downright disgusting. You shouldn’t have to keep playing his game if you’re not comfortable. You still have full ownership of who you are and you always deserve to be treated with dignity; especially when you’re in a relationship. You need a man who shouldn’t do any of the following things to you:
1. HURL ANY INSULTS YOUR WAY (WHETHER DONE IN YOUR PRESENCE OR BEHIND YOUR BACK).
He should NEVER be insulting you. You are in a relationship together and he should be your staunchest defender. He should never be making you feel bad with his words. He should never be painting you in a bad light. You shouldn’t have to endure rough talk from him that assaults your character.
